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Dr. Ruth Neustifter

Ruth is a professional intimacy consultant, sexuality educator, qualitative researcher, and university instructor.  She holds a Ph.D. in Family Development, with certificates in Interdisciplinary Qualitative Research and Family Therapy, as well as a MS in Social Work with a specialization in Family Therapy.  Ruth has presented nationally and internationally, and is published, on her work in the areas in sexuality as well as intimate partner violence.  She holds memberships in several respected national and international organizations related to human sexuality, sexual health, family studies and family therapy.

A recent resident of Washington, DC (USA) Dr. Ruthie offers sexuality workshops locally and around the country.  She is also available for personal sexuality education and relationship coaching sessions with clients around the world, via phone and skype.  You can learn more about her background and availability at .

Find Me Online

I’m proud to contribute to the following sexuality sites:

Scarleteen – One of a great team of sexuality experts offering advice to teens & young adults

KinkySexLink – regular blogger contributor

CarnalNation – via their rss feeds

Lustique and FunWithSexToys – member of their official product review team

Topix – sexuality editor

Disclosures & Advertising

This blog does not generate any income through commission-based advertising or product sales.  Sometimes I review a product that was sent from the manufacturer or a vender, however I receive no compensation and only accept these samples upon the agreement that my review will be honest (positive or negative).  If I have been given a product to review I will make that clear in the text and also by possibly running a commercial banner at the bottom of the post.   In order to receive free review products some companies require that I join an affiliate program, presumably under the assumption that I will want to profit off any sales referred to them.  In order to avoid a conflict of interest, and to ensure the integrity of my reviews, 100% of any income that is generated through affiliate programs is donated to .  I do not make any commissions on products, books, or anything else mentioned here.

5 Comments leave one →
  1. Barbara permalink
    October 11, 2008 5:33 pm

    Just wanted to thank you for Friday night’s workshop at Aphrodite’s — it was very helpful and encouraging! The latex glove idea is already gaining some traction with my BF… so I think he is in for a fun time next time he’s here for a visit. It was good to meet you… looking forward to reading your blog regularly!

  2. Kikay permalink
    December 14, 2009 11:57 pm


    Do you accept blog roll? Is it okay for you that I will post your blog link to my blog sites?

    Thanks with regards,


  3. Kikay permalink
    December 17, 2009 11:21 pm

    Yes, but is it ok for you if you will link back to my bog site as well?

    that’s my blog site.



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