Getting the Sex You Want
Continuing on the theme of lips and talking:
Cory Silverberg, one of my favorite sexuality educators, has posted a lovely article on how to increase communication to increase sexual pleasure and reduce confusion or misinterpretations. Check out his article on alerting your partner/s clearly and concisely to what you want, and making sure that you know, too.
Sex Tips For The Rest of Us: Define Your Sexual Terms – here